I wan t to switch off family safety feature but cannot figure out how to do it

Hello, thank you for reaching out to Microsoft Q&A.

If you're not a parent, guardian, or organizer of the family safety group, you cannot disable family safety features for a child account. Only the family organizer who provided consent for the child account can remove these permissions.

1. Go to https://account.microsoft.com/family/home and sign in with the Parent/guardian account.
2. Select the child account and select Manage consent or select Content Filters.
3. To disable web and search filters, turn the __Filter inappropriate websites and searches __toggle off.
4. You will then be able to access all the websites.

Reference:

https://support.microsoft.com/en-us/account-billing/filter-websites-and-searches-using-microsoft-family-safety-3034d91e-5efa-9fbe-1384-46009f087ccf

Let me know if you still need more help.